Why does the next boyfriend have to be held to a higher standard? If the last guy used you, then why can't I? Why do I have to be held to a higher standard? I'm no better than your last boyfriend. You are not worth as much now as you were before. You have more past baggage, and your body has more sexual mileage. This is what I have thought of my last 2 girlfriends.
2mo I have decided to finally break up with my current girl. Unfortunately in lead her on. But after a few months, she is just the same as then last two girls not good enough for me. I waited a long while for this girl and realize no girl is worth the wait.
I'm sorry but I strongly disagree with you. I don't think relationships should ever be affected by past partners. You aren't trying to take advantage of your partner if you truly care for them. Nobody should be "using" anyone in any good relationship. Don't objectify people, nobody should be treated like a tool. I don't want to start an argument, but by your logic, wouldn't your so-called "value" have gone down, considering you have more sexual mileage from each partner? And someone who has had sex often is more experienced, just food for thought. I don't know it just seems very shallow to be saying a girlfriend is "worth" less because of the past. I just can't see how a strong relationship could ever form if you can't get over the past. Just appreciate your girlfriend, and I'm sure she'll notice and be very appreciative. That's being the better man, that's how you show her you really care. So if the last guy treated her like trash you sure as hell should act better than him. But I'm just a high school kid, what do I know?
-Poor timing (ie she's more guarded now and or learned from past mistakes)
-Possibly as attractive as the previous guys
-possibly not as good at flirting as the previous guys
Even if the previous guys had the same mentality that you do they were probably better at hiding it than you are. I can guarantee they didn't get into bed with her by saying "you're damaged good, let me use you".