The guy I like texted me at 1 today and I responded. He hasn't texted me back yet. Should I worry that he is just trying to little by little lose touch with me because he's not really interested? Wouldn't he have responded by now if he was really interested? Fyi: I'm not creepy or text him nonsense or anything like that.
Well, it really depends on the frequency, means if this has happened only once then it's fine maybe he was busy or was occupied doing something, but if this is something that he does on a regular basis then it clearly indicates that he is not taking your seriously and the fact that he is not interested as much as you are.
I currently have a co worker who I know is attracted to me and has been texting me a lot nowadays. I'm not interested because I don't find him attractive and he's married! He's very nice though and although I respond to his texts, I never text him first nor do I make it a point to respond right away. Why? 1... I'm not interested 2... I don't want to give him the wrong idea. 3... it's not that important to me to respond ASAP as I'm not interested.
Conversely... for the guy I love and find very attractive and am interested in--a nuclear blast could be coming my way and I'd prob respond to his text before running to hide.
Don't jump the gun just yet here, dear. You have stated that he 'Texted me at 1 today,' and may now be Busy and hasn't had a Chance to Push another Button. Don't do anymore Sending. Allow him to get back to you. At this time, I don't see any Red Flags, only if he Would put you totally on a Back Burner and Never Send Again. Good luck. xx
No. It's normal and it helps keep that relationship balanced and un-obsessive. If they haven't responded back in a few days, that is a clearer sign. He probably is very busy, and it also depends on what you texted back to him.
yeah probably. unless he's just really busy. my ex did that 3 days before he broke up with me. Spent the night at is house on a Saturday and then Sunday through Tuesday he didn't read my messages until like 2 hours after i sent them.
It is possible that he's trying to communicate that he may be less interested than you are but it also could just be that he doesn't check his phone that often. But I think you're kind of right; if he was super into you he'd probably be waiting by his phone for you to text him.