Hey, Asian guys. I'm a blonde girl who is specially attracted to Asians, especially East Asians.
But I never met any Asians who showed interest to me, and I don't think it's because I'm unattractive, since many of my friends think I'm 7-8/10.
A number of people say Asian guys are shy, especially when it comes to non-Asian guys. Then what are the signs that they are possible to be interested to me?
And should I make some initiations? And if I need to, what should I do to approach and attract an Asian guy who I'm interested in.
(Note: I'm also shy, so...)
Most Helpful Guy
I can't say that there's going to be anything unique about an Asian guy being attracted to you compared to any other ethnicity.
Are we talking 1st generation Asian males in the US?
"And should I make some initiations? And if I need to, what should I do to approach and attract an Asian guy who I'm interested in."
- Be friendly and approachable just like you would anyone and let him come to you.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'm currently dating a South Korean who came to the USA 2 years ago. I'm not fully white like you though, I'm half black and half white.
When we first started talking he texted a lot, and always wanted to hang out. He tried to bring me into his circle as much as possible and was super sweet and patient.
I will tell you that men are men to an extent and will make you the focus of all of their attention if you're the one who catches their eye. My boyfriend was not shy, and from the moment he approached me at the bus stop that day, I could see it that he liked me.
If you have to guess whether a guy likes you, he probably doesn't like you.
Shy guys aren't that different, as they silently make you their focus. If he finds reasons to look at you a lot, or make small awkward small talk, he could be interested.
The best way to know is to just ask though. You won't die, and you will get a clear answer :) Good luck!!1