What are 4 deal breakers when you are in a relationship?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Well, I have always been single. However I can answer your question. According to me the major deal breakers in a relationship would be:

    1. One person trying to make another jealous on purpose, playing hard to get and other mind games to test the person.

    2. Always having a judgmental attitude towards the other person.

    3. Flirty nature. Like if they just can't control themselves or stop flirting when they see an attractive person of opposite gender.

    4. If a person just can't keep control over their emotions, feelings and are always being someone who throws tantrums about things.

    5, Another deal breaker would be when one person in a relationship is always complaining and always siting the problems rather than actually focusing on solutions.

    I think these should be the deal breakers, of course there can be many more deal breakers.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • • Constant little lies
    • Being secretive
    • Hard Drugs
    • Doesn't want to spend a lot of time together

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What Guys Said 11

  • feminist
    promiscuis/disloyal
    narcissistic
    unhealthy (a little meat is okay a little thin is okay but when it goes to the extremes that's unattractive)

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  • The deal breakers before even going out are: Smoking, drugs, ghetto, overweight, too old, and STDs. Having kids can be too, but there is a small amount of leeway in that.

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  • list of deal breakers (4 only)
    1 doesn't want a committed relationship
    2 isn't a virgin
    3 smokes, drinks, does drugs, has piercings, and tattoos. aka is "trashy"
    4 doesn't want sex or sexual things with me

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  • Jealousy
    Open relationship
    Possessiveness
    No communication

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  • Addictions
    Dishonest
    Narrow-minded
    Bad Attitude

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  • 1. Breaks promises repeatdly
    2. Unreliable
    3. Doesn't drive
    4. Is super poor

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  • just one, trust

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  • Lack of ass at night

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  • Sexual incompatibility, personality clashes, moral standards, personal responsibility.

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  • Cheating
    Stealing
    Trying to make me cut off my friends/family
    No longer wants kids

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  • Poor hygiene
    Egocentric
    Lying
    Apathetic

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What Girls Said 16

  • Rude
    Bad hygiene or habits (a habit being chewing with mouth open)
    Secretive
    Unloyal/player/open relationship

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  • Cheating.
    Lying. (Lack of honesty)
    Lack of respect.
    Undisclosed relevant medical/mental history.

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  • No drive/ goals in life
    Doesn't want kids/ family some day
    Rude/ disrespectful on a consistent basis
    My family disapproves (they are pretty open so if they disapprove there is generally something I don't see)

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  • 1. Drinks/smokes
    2. Gossips/backbites/dishonest
    3. curses when /if we have a dispute
    4. wants to show me off to everyone (scoring kinda thing)

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  • 1. Bad table manners - it's shocking how some people STILL chew with their mouth open
    2. Cheating (obviously)
    3. Can't drive
    4. Clingy

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  • 1. Cheating
    2. Getting offended easily/no sense of humor
    3. doesn't give enough attention
    4. Rude
    ( no particular order)

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  • Cheating
    Violence
    Substance abuse
    Disrespecting my family

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  • Too critical

    Asshole
    Literal fxck boy and only wants to have sex

    No direction in life

    Can't be my polar opposite

    Not judge mental

    Can't have more baggage then I can bear ( I'm willing to work with them... but I have to be able to handle it)

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  • -smokers

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  • Abusive
    Cheater
    Poor hygiene
    Addict (Alcoholic/ smoker/drug)

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  • 1. Cheating
    2. Lying
    3. Being disrespectful towards me or my family
    4. Too jealous/ possessive

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  • Dishonest
    Controlling
    Anger issues
    Fat

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  • I can think of one right away. If he can't talk to me about an issue or conflict he feels with me to resolve it, but instead brings in a comfortable, blond, mutual girl acquaintance/ person friend so she mediates. This makes me the villain.

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  • 1. No communication
    2. Jealousy
    3. Controlling
    4. Rude behavior

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  • No trust
    No commitment
    Unrielable
    Lazy

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  • smoking (any kind), no job, age difference could be, poor hygiene

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