Every single guy on this earth that I meet only wants me for hookups only and it's really annoying. I'm honestly so done dating wise, I don't know what I'm doing wrong. For example me and this guy were talking online and everything went well and he was like "you're probably my future gf" "I'm looking forward to seeing you" and just other stuff that made it seem like he wanted something more than just a hookup. So he asked me out on a first date to the movies and well basically the whole time we were just making out because he said he wanted to and he was being all touchy and stuff and even after I told him I didn't really want to do it anymore he kinda kept begging in a way. Every single guy I meet is always like that from the beginning to the end so is there something in doing wrong or is it because they hate me or something after they see me?
2mo Oh by the way these guys I've met I've known them for about 3 weeks or more before meeting them in person! But it's just for example this guy asked me at the movies while he was holding my hand "do you mind that I hold you I'm very efficient. And I'd say I don't mind just so the guy won't hate me but I didn't give permission to do other stuff and most of them don't even ask
2mo Before meeting them I do tell them I don't want hookups!! And they'd say same here
Hi, well sorry u seem to be having this bad luck with guys, trust me there are good guys out there. Anyways maybe u are just looking in the wrong areas, besides you are still 18, hang around and have some fun for a while, trust me, when u meet the right guy, he will want u forever. Maybe the 1st date with a guy shouldn't be to the movies. Just a casual meet up for coffee or something to get to know each other. Good luck
Lol guys online tend to be more focused on fucking. But shit i don't know guys are just really thirsty like that, i don't think i give off that vibe but i remember literally the first time i met a guy he started touching me and trying to make out. Just reject them and if they don't seem interested anymore just move on knowing they just wanted one thing. It's not you, guys are just horny as fuck.
I think it would be fairly easy, I mean if a guy tries to kiss you and your not looking for a hook up then don't kiss him right away. You should try making them wait and see if they are really interested or just trying to smash
It's because you're too easy. For example, your first date consists of you making out with a complete and utter stranger you've met online. The problem is that you don't respect yourself enough to set up boundaries early on. If you don't respect yourself nobody else is going to.
Those guys only wanted to have sex with you and not forward to anything more. You are wrong because you allowed them to do that to you, so it is your fault too. Its disrespectful you know. So next time, if you're really looking for a serious relationship, and not just some kind of hook up, say it straight up to them the first time you talk to them. And say no if they want to make out with you, then ask later if theyre looking for something serious, or just want to fuck.
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