I have a tendency to only go for guys I feel an initial spark with. My friends told me the soak is the chase (they tend to be less clingy which I like). On the other hand, I've been with really sweet, successful attractive guys that I don't feel a spark with and end things. Obviously I haven't had much success so just looking for more opinions.
- Go for the spark49%(17)53%(36)Vote58%(19)
- Go for compatibilIty51%(18)47%(32)Vote42%(14)
Most Helpful Guy
From what i''ve experienced, my only long (>2 year) relationship has been spark that molded into compatibility.
I don't think a "good" relationship is possible without both - Think of it like this, If you chase the spark it has a 50/50 chance you'll ALSO be compatible. If you only go for compatibility you'll never experience the spark.0
Most Helpful Girl
With no sparks, there is no real attraction in my opinion. You can have compatibility with friends from the opposite gender, and that doesn't mean you'll date them.0