Every time a attractive girl comes on T. V, he feels the need to tell me. Like she's not bad is she. And it's really hurting my feelings. I don't like having that discussion with my boyfriend. I don't need to know he finds these women attractive. Would you be angry if your bf/gf did the same. ?
- Yes, I'd be really pissed and he is being disrespectful44% (8)29% (2)40% (10)Vote
- No, wouldn't bother me.28% (5)57% (4)36% (9)Vote
- Other28% (5)14% (1)24% (6)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe talk to him and let him know how you feel? If he isn't typically an ass, he probably doesn't know how it's making you feel. The longer you let him keep doing it, the less likely he is to notice it's upsetting you.
I can think of a lot of reasons why he'd act that way, so just confront him and let him know.. But when you approach him, be very clear about how it's making you feel. Be assertive, but don't be rude/disingenuous/angry.
And if he is just naturally an asshole, don't date him. NO ONE needs two assholes.
Most Helpful Girl
Yes I would be pissed if my boyfriend did that cuz he should not be comparing me to other women or telling me that other women are attractive. It is rude and insensitive because I want to be the only one he looks at. If you want it to stop then you have to discuss it with him and set boundaries. How is he supposed to know it hurt your feeling if you do not tell him? He will not. It is a necessary talk u must have with you boyfriend.2