Not at all. Maybe you don't irradiate an approachability? What is your look? Ever studied that? Maybe it says: don't touch me or you get my fist in your face. Then its normal you will not be approached. And why not take initiative yourself. This is the 21st century. Girls no longer sit on a chair at the wall waiting to be asked.
People didn't bother with me in that department either. That's okay. What others thought about me did not matter. I just built friendships with those who wanted to be around and I would see where that went. The others were simply disregarded.
Show a picture of you and I'll tell how you look and if you can improve something the way you look. Without a picture and telling you have never been asked out by a guy at 30s, I do assume you're not attractive.
i think your appearance is not the reason... maybe there is something in your character which makes boys afraid... for example: your character is stronger then theirs or you are very feminine and they think that they do not deserve you... how do you think? what should be reason of not approaching you? beside appearance?
Don't worry, I don't get approached often either :) I think a lot of other factors come into play, not just looks. As other users mentioned, it's about confidence, the way you hold yourself, or personality too. Don't beat yourself up over it!
Consider yourself lucky. Usually they come up to you and say stupid shit. Being hit on is so annoying, and sometimes awkward. Maybe you should try approaching a guy you like. You're a strong woman, show it 😊 Men don't always have to be the ones to initiate conversation and/or relationships.
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