Do guys ever actually get 'freaked out' by their feelings for a girl?
What Guys Said 19
Depends on if I'm feeling strong for someone that I either, don't have a shot at, or is unattainable for me because of circumstances and/or "reasons". Then it, FUCKING SUCKS ASS (sorry offense nazies), to have these feelings for someone that you know probably won't be reciprocated or can and won't develop into anything substantial. Then it's like torture to try and get the feelings out of my thoughts and desires. But it's "human" to have this happen so guys and girls will always go through this at some point in their lives.1
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Yes, constantly. Some are good at concealing that behind a poker face, but don't be fooled. Feelings for a. girl are difficult to handle.1
In my opinion (and experience) guys who are less emotionally mature are more likely to get "freaked out" by their feelings. Same for women. By time you're in your 30s you should have a pretty decent handle on these things. I have found that "forcing distance" is an immature way to approach things. You should have open channels of communication and discuss things. "I know we're moving quickly, does it concern you?" etc. But "Uh, I like you TOO much so I'm going to push you away" is just going to lead to hurt feelings and confusion.1
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No, feelings for someone is amazing. It just sucks when they supress their feelings to avoid been seen as too eager. Like, comon people just stop fucking with each others minds and trying to make relationships a power struggle and just enjoy each others love for one another by being open and honest.1
Yes. All the time haha. You should hear the conversations I have with my roommate sometimes.1
Oh yeah. Feelings like that do tend to be irrational and therefore scary, but in the future I wouldn't go so far as to suppress them. The past was another story...1
No , I am not Edward scissor hands1
Oh yea 😅😅😅0
Yeah so freaked out0
Not since high school since these days I know to avoid such things.0
I have a couple of times yeah0
I make sure I keep them away, feelings for girls is a nono for me. :P0
freaked out? I just avoid that person.0
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