Ok long story shortened. We have been together for almost 4 years and we are soul mates, always together, never have any issues and we both know we will most likely be getting married one day after he's finished college and we have our lives fully financially stable... here's the thing. I always loved the look of promise rings and I think they are so cute and meaningful and I have tried hinting to him that I want one but it seems like he doesn't get the hint. I get pretty jealous whenever I see someone post they're cute rings on social media and they are couples that haven't even been together nearly as long as us so it just makes me think we deserve something like that you know? Basically I just ordered him a really nice looking ring. It's perfect--black and skate great chrome band and I engraved inside of it "My better half." In HOPES that he will want to return the favor and get me one too... but I just looked at some other people's posts about this and people keep saying promise rings are dumb and that the girl shouldn't get one so now I am feeling conflicted. What do you think?
Is it bad I'm feeling a little dumb about purchasing a promise ring for my boyfriend?
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If this means something to YOU, then do it.
- Get it for him. Explain to him that, it's silly but means a lot to you. If he loves you as much as it sounds, then he'll take it.
Will he get you one back? Unlikely.0
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