My boyfriend tells me that he wants me to get a boob job since my breast aren't that perky. He tells me that if I don't, then he won't really be in love with me. He gets upset that I tell him that I don't really want to get a boob job. Must a girl have perky boobs in order for a man to fall in love with her?
Most Helpful Guy
His request is valid from his perspective. It's his wants and if he doesn't love you then he should go. But the more serious issue is your self confidence. Either someone loves you for you or show them the door. You determine your worth not them. I'm a boob man, but if she has all the other qualities then that is not even a issue, it's a physical preference not requirement for love.0
Most Helpful Girl
No but it sounds like his "love" is conditional based on how your boobies look. That's not the type of love that will last when you're old and everyone has saggy boobs. Soooo.. I wouldn't do it if it's just to satisfy him. It's your body and if he can't really love it the way it is when you have actively said you don't want it, then find someone who will. Or tell him that once he gets a dick job so it's like 9 inches then you'll love him too.0