My boyfriend tells me that he wants me to get a boob job since my breast aren't that perky. He tells me that if I don't, then he won't really be in love with me. He gets upset that I tell him that I don't really want to get a boob job. Must a girl have perky boobs in order for a man to fall in love with her?
His request is valid from his perspective. It's his wants and if he doesn't love you then he should go. But the more serious issue is your self confidence. Either someone loves you for you or show them the door. You determine your worth not them. I'm a boob man, but if she has all the other qualities then that is not even a issue, it's a physical preference not requirement for love.
No but it sounds like his "love" is conditional based on how your boobies look. That's not the type of love that will last when you're old and everyone has saggy boobs. Soooo.. I wouldn't do it if it's just to satisfy him. It's your body and if he can't really love it the way it is when you have actively said you don't want it, then find someone who will. Or tell him that once he gets a dick job so it's like 9 inches then you'll love him too.
My god NO. That guy sounds like a complete loser. Tell him to get a penis enlargement surgery *facepalm* Don't actually do that 😁 But truthfully, he sounds extremely shallow, he needs to grow up... I'd leave him.
Not at all! That is wrong of your man to demand. If he's just into your body that's not true love. Even going so far as to DEMAND to get your hair cut or keep it long or whatever. Trying to look good for your man is not bad and his stating his PREFERENCES is cool. But No one should ever demand something especially so major as plastic surgery.
Um you should leave his ass because he's in love with your body not you!
You absolutely do not need to have perky boobs for a guy to fall in love with you. He is superficial and does not love you unconditionally. Leave him. For him to be this hung up now on the shape of your boobs, God forbid you get wrinkles, gain weight, or experience something horrific like cancer and lose all your hair. Take it from a girl like me who has very small boobs that aren't perky at all and acne all over her back, yet who has a boyfriend who loves her anyway.