Is tinder ok to download after a bad breakup? What do you guys think? Its been a month since my breakup, and i just found out my ex cheated on me a few days ago when i called him trying to fix things up between us and see if we could get it another try. But l received a lovely surprise, he told me he's dating someone new already, he's known her for 10 years, they're friends! That shattered me into pieces. Knowing that they were friends and they developed feelings for each other meanwhile he and i were together! He claims it just happened... very convenient do you think?
I've been trying to deal with the break up by keeping myself busy with a partime job, taking care of my pets, and I've developed an insane cleaning habits. Im always organizing, cleaning, rearranging things throughout the house and it keeps me busy enough to not have to think about my ex or the breakup. My girlfriend sugguested creating a tinder account for fun but I don't know. It sounds fun and harmless but I don't know if I'm ready. Im scared. Scared of developing feeling for another guy right away which turns into a rebound and then I'm left 10x more damaged. I don't know if its a good idea right after a breakup... maybe it'll keep my mind off of my ex but ill start comparing or wanting another relationship.. I don't know I'm over thinking it i guess. Any thoughts?
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I wouldn't... You might feel bad and start hooking up with guys...
And you already know that will damage you in the future,
You don't need male attention... you need to go find yourself, focus on you! Work out, take a class, be happy in your own skin...1