Well he communicates with me everyday.
Recently his car has tire issues.
He invited me to go out tonight and told me he'll call me back but never did. Instead he text me to play games. We played games and then he said he's going to chill. I asked if he's still going out or if he would like me to come pick him so we can hangout. He hasn't replied to me but he did end up going out with friends. He also seems more concerned about getting his friends from out of state a place to stay than to see me. Seems more excited? I don't know if he's feeling embarrassed about his car? I have car issues too but I still make a way. I don't know if should talk to him telling him I feel like I'm putting effort and it's not being sent back to me. I hate confrontation, but I feel like I should have some boundaries and my voice heard. What should I do?
What Experts Said
You are insecure... STOP.. he will pick up on this and then it's over. You need to be busy with things you are interested in in your life that doesn't concern him. Just because he has a life and other stuff going on doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. He needs to find his friends a place to stay.. you are the one making it out that it's more important then seeing you... he still needs to do this.. so why not support him and ask him if needs help. Add value.. don't always take it.0
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