Do you think falling in love needs some requirements and that those requirements exist today?
Men. Half of them see a pretty face and a hot body and they lie about everything just to get their hands on you. They make their personality fake at times and don't show who they really are.
Women. Half of them lure men with their fake beauty like implants, makeup or just plain sexual attraction to get them, like their personalities aren't good enough.
Now this goes for the majority here but there are so many things that people ignore from their partner to be with them even though it's a severe problem like cheating, gold digging, having a partner because she/he is good looking, not talking to me but since I get sex I'm ok and etc. etc. etc.
People today have stupid standards. Women have no clue of what is beauty and most of them lack good conversations vs men these days. Men promote the fake beauty and think too much about how good she looks.
I don't believe a girl can accept me, accept herself, care for me, make effort for me. I just don't anymore.
And guys do it because they want to show off and make effort because they just want something. ONE THING!
People get together for the wrong reasons these days. It pisses me off.
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Instant gratification and hedonistic lifestyle. In old times people had to work to get something now thanks to modern convenience you can get a lot of things at a click of a button. Want to fuck a girl, go on tinder and get her to your place. Want Pizza, call and it's delivered.
People translate that behavior into dating. They care about 3 things
1. Are they attractive that i want to sleep with them instantly.(pre-requisite )
2. Are they fun
3. Is the sex good
Well let's get into relationship and that's it. No one looks for the red flag because they're too busy looking at the shiny outer exterior and fun.
The person could be a liar, cheater, have loose morals, doing shady shit on side, crazy, emotional and mental abuser but just hiding it but everyone don't give a fuck. The first sign of trouble they'll just drop them and find someone else like they do their phone.
LOVE DOES NOT EXIST IN THIS WORLD TODAY JUST LUST PEOPLE CONFUSE FOR LOVE.
Good luck millennial in future. Vast majority of you will be bitter with no happiness.0