If sex getting dull is the reason why you would destroy a relationship then why have the relationship, clearly your priorities are on sex and sex alone nothing else matters. The point of being in a relationship is to grow together that means you do things together and you develop together. Same goes for sex. I think its strange that people are always talking about sex getting dull, I mean honestly if its his dick or another dick whats the difference? I mean other then him knowing what you like and don't like? Seems stupid to me.
In case my relationship is perfectly functional, I would have no need for anyone else in a romantic / sexual manner.
Although I do admit that if there IS a need to connect with someone else because the current relationship is dissatisfactory, then it seems odd to somehow look for only that element from someone else. It would mean that being devoted to either side is impossible, and that is just sad.
It's the only way I do things, I at some point just asked myself why it would bother me if my partner were to cheat on me and couldn't think of a reason, so I decided to move past the impulsive "No, you're not supposed to do that" that I'd learned and became polyamorous, although I take it a step further and just don't even call things a relationship. There have been times when other people might have described me as "in a relationship" but I just didn't use the word because it brings rules that we may or may not want to follow. The way I do it everything is just about choice rather than "this is how you're supposed to behave if we use this phrase to describe ourselves"
I mean, if you're going to have an open relationship and just go bang who ever, why have the relationship to begin with. Just treat the person you want to have that "Open Relationship" with like they were the "other" person you'd bang of you were already in one.
Relationship is usually term used for free sex. Nature has designed sex to produce babies to keep life ever lasting on Earth. Producing a baby is a great responsibility for both - mother and father. Any relationship in which sex is involved should be committed and both the partners should keep their faith in each other for future generation.
my brother and I had a pretty open relationship I continued to have lesbian sex with our cousin who was my secret girlfriend through college and when he struck out with girls I'd let him do me and sometimes my girlfriend when she was having a sleep over.
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