I went out with a girl the other night, I had a great time, she was so much fun, even 5 minutes after the date, she sent me an sms telling me how much fun she had, and that she can't wait to see me again.
Here's my problem, she is attractive, great body, probably a 6-7, there is definitely nothing wrong with her, but I DONT FIND HER HUGELY SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE. Could this be my sub-conscious subtly protecting myself because it picked up some red flags? Or any other inbuilt warning system?
I'm just puzzled, for example, I have been more attracted to uglier women, it has me confused, so any opinions or similar stories are greatly appreciated
Your subconscious is telling you something. If you go out with her again, pay extra attention for any red flags your conscious mind missed the first time. She might have said something, maybe you saw her texting, who knows. If you go out again and can't figure out what your mind is trying to tell you, cut off all contact.
I was just in that position, apparently there is a difference between physical attraction and sexual attraction. Physical attraction has to do with the people you find attractive but will only be friends with whereas sexual attraction is attraction on the basis of sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest. Sexual attractiveness or sex appeal is an individual's ability to attract the sexual or erotic interest of another person, and is a factor in sexual selection or mate/ partner's choice.
Just give it time. You've said yourself you had fun etc. And it's only one date. Me and my now boyfriend were dating for a month before we got together and he knows I didn't feel that way towards him at the beginning. I wasn't looking for a relationship and he wasn't my usual type but we had fun together. But the more time together made me see him attractive because of other things and it's been a happy year :)