How do I get a black girl without being into thug culture?

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Sorry about the thug culture part its just an assumption

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Most Helpful Girl

  • What the heck 😒 By not saying dumb shit like this is step 1.

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    • Lesson learned

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    • Not really my bus driver is black

    • That explains it. You can approach like you'd approach anyone else, we aren't a different species. We're all human and are different.

Most Helpful Guy

  • As a black American I can honestly tell you right now, "I gotta be a thug to get a black girl" is one of the biggest myths ever!

    First of all, the girls who want thugs, are culturally thugs themselves. So you won't want them.

    There are PLENTY of black girls that like non-thug guys of ALL ethnicities.

    From first hand experience, I can tell you that the thug types of guys are more aggressive with women and will approach immediately... and that's why some of these girls date the thug. Because he asked first.

    The number one piece of advice is, when u approach a black girl, treat her like u would any other girl. Don't culturally approritate by trying to drop stereotypical preferences you like, to "impress" her. Just be you. :)

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What Girls Said 6

  • Why would you have to be into thug culture to get a black girl?

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  • By showing that you're interested in her and treat her right.
    There's no need to act "like a black guy" just because you like a black girl.
    Be yourself and everything is going to be alright.

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  • Oh Lawd, don't make me get on my soap box...

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  • Why exactly do you want a BLACK girl?

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  • Date a girl who isn't a she-thug. None of the black women I know date thugs.

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  • By not stereotyping would be a good start.

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What Guys Said 11

  • Lmao just approach a blk girl bro they are easy to talk to just be yourself and dont be something your not lol

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  • Meet one who is in college.

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  • Food connection?

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    • I don't get it

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    • Says the guy that thinks Black girls are a part of thug culture lmao

    • @QuestionMan The ones i like are into it sooo?

  • Just tell her you like her. A lot of black women are much easier to impress, based on my experience, compared to white, Latina, or Asian women.

    And a lot of them, believe it or not, aren't into thugs, just the ones from the ghetto.

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    • They shit on white and Asian women in my opinion

  • Oh my godddddd

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  • Thug Culture is not something all Blacks subscribe too. Only a minority of them do.
    Just be you.

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  • make sure u don't say the word n to her cuz u gonna get jumped for real.

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  • Just treat her well like any other girl. It's not like she needs a diff treatment to attract her just because she's black lol.
    Good luck.

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  • By you having this mindset that she's in a "thug culture" I don't think you should ask her out

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  • Steal her car

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  • Do you know how racist this sounds

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    • Compared to some of the responses this is hardly racist

    • Why don't you stick with a white girl

    • White women are boring i don't like dating my own women.

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