Im a black girl im 22 years old dating a cute black guy but he's got ED and he's only 23.. and its the 4rth in a row with ED !!!
I read in google that black men are more likely to have it but whyyyy?
Its disappointing not because of the sex but because its another relationship that won't work.. I have latina friends that dont go through this at all with their man and even say they can go long time on sex something I've never experienced and yet i have black girlfriends that tell me their man can't keep it up !!
What is it that causes this?
Any advice on how to talk this over with my boyfriend? Its embarrassing and awkward.. 4rth in a row ! Is this an epidemic on the black community?
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I could believe performance anxiety affects black guys more who are all supposed to be seen as being very huge down there and if they're not, they can be very self conscious about it.
I also think porn is affecting a lot of people in their early 20's sexual performance more than it used to because they grew up with the internet when they hit puberty. People who masturbate to porn too much become desensitized with how girls actually are in real life and when the girl isn't animated like a porn star it can be hard to stay aroused when they're used to that type of material.0