I've been talking to a guy getting to know him
and I kind of want to know why him and his ex broke up and if he still talks to her and hangs out with her. I also kinda want to know if he still loves her. He said that the break up wasn't too bad but it wasn't fun and that his relationships never really worked out and all so that's why he's just been single and focused on himself. People say that the past doesn't matter but I'm just curious about it all. Is this something I should ask him about or should I not bring it up at all?
Most Helpful Guy
I generally feel like the past should be off limits and forgotten about unless there is a reason to bring it up , maybe a funny story about how horrible an ex was or something but really who wants to hear about the ex?
think if people had a dating " resume " like they have a resume for work , how disgusted we'd be to see who they had been with before and how long they had spent dating them , it be horrible to look at and see , this isn't stuff we need to know1
Most Helpful Girl
If you're not dating him then you don't get to ask him
I think just talking to him and asking him makes you nosy1