ok so I went with this guy for coffee then on the way back he tried to kiss me and I turned it down lol.
so do you people usually kiss on a first date?
do you think he ll still be interested if I blew him off like that? I wasn t ready for a make out session XD
Most Helpful Guy
I often did but it was more baby-steps, a bit more natural. It didn't feel like I had to initiate much since we were already kind of shoulder-to-shoulder, playfully touching each other, talking intimately. To me making a bold move to initiate a kiss is kind of risky and something I very rarely ever did.
>> do you think he ll still be interested if I blew him off like that?
He might be a little bit warded off. Depends on the guy and his persistence and how he read into that. If he starts thinking you're not interested in him because of it, he might move on. If you still like him maybe you can kind of make it clear you're still interested to maximize the odds of continuing subsequent dates.1
Most Helpful Girl
If the date goes REALLY well enough then yeah, I can see people kissing on the first date. On the exact same note though, if it just went okay, well, or you weren't feeling it yet (or suspected you wouldn't ever) then I don't blame a single soul for not wanting to kiss on the first date.
Honestly it's hard to say, it depends on how fragile his ego is and how exactly you turned him down, whether it was rude, emasculating, etc.2