like doesn't bother you if the girl comes in jeans and a top with no makeup and so on and girls do you put in the effort? also I guess it depends on the setting and where you re going. honestly I prefer to have minimal to no makeup at first and casual clothes. If he likes me like that he ll surely like me all dolled up.
it depends on the occasion. but generally... no. actually, I prefer the casual look and light makeup over being overdressed for a simple date. As long as you look good, it's fine... and for that you don't need an expensive dress, tons of makeup, etc
For me not so much since I prefer dates that favored that kind of attire like going to park, go on a boat ride together, amusement park, ice skating, hiking, etc.
It wasn't so much like fancy dinners (I hate those on a first date, a bit too formal and difficult to bond without some history together).
I do appreciate it if some effort went into looking pretty nice even with that very casual type of attire, like you didn't just randomly choose your clothes out of the closet. Depending on how you look naturally, minimal cosmetics might be nice, or none at all if you can sport the natural look very well.
Anyway, I don't really mind but mainly because of the type of setting. If, on a future date, there was like a fancy dinner or exclusive club or something like that involved, I might be disappointed a bit if she showed up a second time like this.
You know my standards Archiz, if you show up in anything less than this I'm ditching you and the bill 😂😂😂 img.auctiva.com/.../690617587_o.jpg Most guys won't care because they'll be wearing the same thing themselves.
No. I mean, if you wanna go casual, you better tell me so I can do the same. And if you want to dress up, tell me. So I can do the same. Basically, she can go how ever she likes to go, as long as she tells me she I'm not in a tux and she's in sweatpants.
Part of this depends on what we're doing, like if we're going hiking and you show up in a dress and heels I'd probably tell you that I just remember I had to go the doctors for a colonoscophy and have to cancel. But in general I would expect some type of effort to be made by the girl. It shows that she's into the date. That she didn't just say yes because she didn't know how to say no.
its ok that she does, because it means she's really trying to impress me, but she can dress casual with no makeup, but id have to scrutinize her actions toward me more to see if she's trying to impress me.
If she is wearing jeans it's a " i don't care what i look like " like she rushed to find clothes! Skip the Jeans an put on a nice pair of pant's ! Otherwise i am gonna go get my clothing designer friend an have her fix the girls look!
You would look good in a burlap sack and a rope, Cutey pants :) <3
It depends on how long you know each other (going in the same class for years?), the setting, fit your personality and be comfortable for you. I have seen girls using high heels for the first time in their life and failing at it, especially when it is a place where you would dance.