I'm not talking about spending the night or anything. I mean just coming OVER. About a month ago her dad found out that we had sex. Since then we haven't tried anything, and we've done everything they've asked and followed all their rules. She had to start therapy and everything and she's doing everything she's supposed to and he says he trusts us. Even before he found out we couldn't go to her room and someone had to be inside with us. She asked to come over today and told her "You'll be fine staying home". I'd like her to spend time with my family and get close to them. He has met my parents once after they found out we had sex. If she came over we would be supervised and everything. Today her dad also told her he wants us to go slower and that we can't even cuddle up on the couch, he told her "You all cuddling up on the couch won't happen next time he's over, If there is a next time". Yesterday I tried doing a favor for him as we took her little brother running and he ran off from us but we could still see him, today her little brother told her dad that we told him to run off and that he couldn't see us, so now her dad thinks we went and fooled around which is false. I get him being protective but I'm trying my best and listening to everything he's saying to gain his trust back but it seem like nothing is good enough. I'm tired of driving there all the time and being judged. Advice? What should I do?
P. S. Her parents are divorced and her mom is completely fine with her coming over and stuff but she is only there every other weekend.
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He's a dad trying to make sure his daughter doesn't end up pregnant. I kind of agree with the dad in this situation. If you've already had sex what's gonna stop you from doing it again? He's just doing what he thinks is best for his daughter. is he cockblocking you? Yes. Is he a bad guy for that? Not really. Just calm your dick, relax, be nice to her dad for a while, and prove that you actually care about her more than just her body.3