I am very confused about this because many (specially) women say they want a man who is financially stable with a good education. Yet they have been telling me that guys dont have to have a career or a great job to date someone as long as they have a nice personality, are stable with a low income job, and of course treats and loves the woman very much then they will go for him.
I put an example for them: if you met 2 guys both great, amazing and average looking but 1 of them was a lawyer or engineer and had an normal car and had his own place and guy #2 was working as labour cause things haven't worked out with the schooling and jobs. And he had his own place and an ok car.
Which guy would you date/marry?
Most Helpful Girl
When someone uses the phrase "I won't settle for less" it's in terms of personality, a certain specific look, or certain quality/trait they look for in a person. Yes sometimes it can come down to a person career, but that is depending on the person who wants to date them in the first place. There are a lot of things we prefer when it comes to a potential partner and sometimes if they don't have a certain look or a specific "something" then people will look else where. Hence "I won't settle for less"1
Most Helpful Guy
Given your example unless she had a thing for labourers most girl are going to choose the first guy given they've both got great personalities just one is able to better provide to her.
Some girls might not care about careers or jobs, but usually those type of girls are girls who don't care about their own careers or jobs.