I was washing my hands in the washroom and my girlfriend had this pallet with a bunch of beauty things. She leaves her make up stuff on the counter and i almost have no room to clean my hands lol but anyways that pallet was open and with the water running i moved my hand and by mistake that pallet thingy got water on it. So i didn't tell her anything and went downstairs and tried to use paper towl but it made it worse lol to clean it.
I told her what i did and she got mad but i also said not to leave that stuff open and what not. I told her it's no big deal and make up is not important and she got more mad. Now i'm not sure what to do and we were suppose to go out tonight but she doesn't want too. I told her she was being stubborn and then we got into an argument. First off where can i buy this make up pallet and is it expensive? Also is make up that important to you girls?
Make up can be VERY expensive for good brands. Depending on the brand and pallet it could be $50-$200. Asking her to leave you some space is a different issue than destroying her makeup. I would be legitimately pissed if a friend didn't just move it and ruined it. Imagine that she tripped over your Xbox because it was on the floor (or something similar).
She is upset not only because it is expensive, but you (consciously or not) have tried to make it her fault. If you want to make it up to her, don't imply that make up is stupid, to expensive, or a waste of time. Take responsibility for your actions and apologize, offer to replace the pallet. Maybe even going to the mall together so she can pick exactly the right thing. The experience could even bring you closer than before.
Wow, you told her it wasn't important... Okay, well it wasn't important to you. So, it's like you downgraded a belonging of her that meant something to her. It's okay if she was pissed off. It's expected, just as long as she wasn't calling you names, shoving you, or holding a grudge. Stuff happens.
Where can you buy this pallet? I don't know. You didn't mention a brand at all. Why not just ask her where she got it from, or give her the money.
Makeup is not important me. I barely ever wear it.
Makeup is very pricey... It's something we wear so that we feel like we look better than anyone else in the room. But yeah I wouldn't get mad if my boyfriend ruined it accidentally, I'd make him get me a new one, because well ruined makeup is hard to fix.
I'm a big makeup fan so I will not lie to you. I would be VERY upset. But I don't think I would be mad at him just like "WHY? IT'S ALL GONE" She shouldn't have left it out like that, I'm guilty of it too but if you want to protect your stuff, don't leave it in danger. However, she is being REALLY immature. If I knew what the palette looked like or who makes it I could maybe tell you. Overall, it is her fault, it was an accident. Let her get over it, if you want to get a her a new one, fine, but I think she's being a brat.
I don't wear a whole lot of make-up, but I do wear some. I have more upscale ones, that are more expensive since they tend to last longer throughout the day and I don't have to buy more for months. I never leave my make-up out unless there was an emergency.
However, for you hypothetical situation, I would have preferred if he just said he accidentally dripped water on my make-up and not touch it. I wouldn't be mad at him, I'd try to see what I can do to fix it. I would be more angry at myself for being careless and leaving it out.
What is the name of the make-up pallet? Some of the ones I use are around $50-55 a piece.
I do not wear makeup that much but i would be pissed if it was expensive.
Replace the one you ruined
Makeup is fucking expensive, that pallet may have been expensive, she may have saved up for it. I agree she shouldn't leave it open in the bathroom, in fact she shouldn't leave it in the bathroom at all (shower steam can mess with the quality). But you could have just closed it and moved it when you first noticed it.
It may be that that pallet was one of the really expensive ones. Just apologizing and saying it was an accident is good yet don't try to put the blame on her. It may not be all your fault but there's no point arguing over whose fault. Just say your sorry and offer to buy a new one. You can buy that stuff at Sephora's.
It isn't important to me at all, I barely own any and even if someone ruined it I'd be ok with it because I use cheap stuff anyway, but maybe it is important for your girlfriend and maybe it was an expensive pallet, and to give you more information about the make up I need to know which brand it is, etc.