I'm a black 17 yr old high school senior that has never been kissed , been in a relationship, or had sex. The only attention if gotten from women is a few hugs and I've been flirted with once , that's it. As a high schooler , when I go to school I see a bunch of PDA. Whenever I see PDA I I either get angry , depressed, or I cringe and think "is that ever going to be me?" If my love life is the same thing as this 15 years later , I'm actually considering suicide. Its not like I can't talk to women , I can. They just never want to have a relationship with me. Honestly when a girl puts me in the friend zone , I lose all hope. I need advice pls
Try being 24 going on 25 this year and bring both romantically and sexually frustrated. Lol. I know I'm still a pup at my age but your an even younger pup at only 17. You've got plenty of time to find a girl. Put it this way some women put guys into the friend zone and they keep them their. But there are women who do the same thing but consider relationships with their male friends, as an easier option because they don't have to go back to square one and get to know them better as they already are familiar with them and know basically most things or everything they need to know about you.
I have AWESOME NEWS for you. GOOD Black Men are in DEMAND. YOU have the odds in your favor. Play the "long game". Keep yourself out of trouble. Go to College and Major in a STEMM Degree (Science, Technology, Engineering, Math, Medicine). There is a surplus of educated Black Women that are desperate for a good educated Black Man. Go to Google. Search on "cannot find good black man". Oprah Winfrey has done several shows on this. Here is a link to one of them...
You're only 17 years old. This means you're simply not old enough to have experienced enough life to have had the opportunities you're craving. You need to live life a tad more in order to really experience mature relationships. I know you just want to feel loved and cherished but you will someday. You just need to get the hell out of high school and go to college - you'll do well there, promise.
I'm the exact same way but I'm only 16. But most high school relationships don't turn out anyways. It's ok, just be patient and be yourself! All of my friends have been in at least one relationship in high school so far, but I haven't, I don't know what it is. But don't even consider suicide, that won't solve anything. There are probably lots of girls out there that feel the same way as you! Maybe you'll find one!
You need a hobby which totally consumes your time. If you dont have time for yourself, then you probably won't think about others. I am same as you, never done anything. I sure long for it, but to get along with life I keep myself super busy doing my hobby or helping people out.
You're a black teenager. You should be getting sex every other day. Just walk up to a girl, point at her stomach and say "I wanna put a baby in there." Make sure to talk like a thug. Or text girls and say: "U want sum fuk?" Tell EVERY female you meet that you want to sex her. Do that 10 times a day and guaranteed you'll get busy with one of them. Lower your standards. Don't just go after the pretty ones. Ugly girls need lovin too. And they make for good practice.
Don't worry, despite the long dark tunnel you will achieve the light. If you give up now, that sight of hope is unachievable.. You're gonna get laid. May not even now in HS but you will