Too strong would be asking the guy out, maybe more than once; saying she is attracted to him; that she likes him... Too strong is NOT the same as clingy. So she wouldn't message every day or be all up his ass, but basically a woman who knows what she wants so she doesn't wait for the guy to take iniative or doesn't have trouble speaking what she chooses to.
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It becomes a problem when the relationship is just beginning and she acts as if we're good old friends to go on a walk with her when you barely know her. The activity on date or the excessively fast intrusion into the private sphere can be a forcing hand or just considered intrusive or boring. So if it's too hard it forces a retreat and the guy thinks "Hey not so fast" or "None of your business". Everyone have a private sphere and one should not penetrate it too strong too fast.
Coming on strong indicates that she is down to earth, assertive, and efficient communicator. I don't see how these qualities can be a turn off. Unlike how most women think, coming on strong won't make you look easy or slutty. It makes you look stronger and more mature which are huge turn ons.
Usually, if a woman comes on as too strong, that would be a turn-off. What you seem to be describing is a confident woman who is doing everything just short/shy of coming on too strong - which is not a turn-off.
To be honest coming on too strong is bad for any gender not just for men.
no.. i wish girls would take things into their own hands more often actually.. i hate how we always have to initiate things
Be wary of the know-alls who say it would be a problem to most guys. The polls will show they are wrong. They are the guys who go around saying they only date virgins and shit like that. They want women to be women from the 1950's.