I'm almost 22. Being "in love" or in a relationship is so foreign to me. I'm introverted and independent, and quite picky... I'm very attractive, visually... Catching men's eyes has never been an issue, but keeping their interest or me keeping interest is where it all falls apart. I fear I turn men off because I'm into dark things and am a bit creepier. I'm also honest and upfront with most things. I've had guys tell me, (after maybe seeing them for a few weeks) like "see, when you say that or do that, I just wish you weren't SO weird," or they'll be silent and awkwardly laugh, or at first I'll get compliments from guys who tell me I'm so different and interested in things they've never heard of, and then I think they lose interest. I've also had guys fake interests or being weirder to attract me.. One first date I had a guy show me a creepy movie, or they'll send me things thinking it's what I like. And it turns me off because I know it isn't them. I'm a kind person.. I'm not going to change my interests or who I am either, but what if I never meet my match? I'm sick of being single all the time. It's such a bore 🙄😒
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Honestly, I would need examples of how "dark" or "creepy". There are, of course, guys into everything you are. Google search for forums about it. I personally find a certain level of darkness to be attractive.
I mean, I myself like to listen bands such as Three Days Grace, Avenged Sevenfold and Set It Off, but my personality differs. So I'd definitely get along with them and I don't mind the tendencies. Oppsities attract after all. And I'm pretty sure most guys agree.
It depends on the "compatibility" for lack of a better word. You're too young to think that men don't find you attractive because you're weird. Someone is bound to think you're awesome. Just wait for the right one to come along.