How to stop caring about dating and girls?

Hello I am 24...

I do not come off as desperate to girls, but I do try to make eye contact, smile, talk to girls, ask them out... I am on dating sites, go to events, etc.

I do my own thing, have my own hobbies, go on vacations, focus on myself...

I do want a girlfriend, and I do feel lonely/sad that I don't have one...

I see a lot of guys (and girls too), especially my friends, that don't care at all about dating at all... Nothing, they couldn't care less... and they are happy with life...

I am not sure if I can change myself to feel that way? Why do I care so much?

Is there something wrong with me?

Is there a real way to stop caring about girls?


Most Helpful Girl

  • I think the easiest way to stop caring is just to be 100% happy with yourself first and realise why you're a catch and why girls would be lucky to have you.


What Girls Said 1

  • Just be patient and you might find someone :)


What Guys Said 1

  • No you can't. They're everywhere, you'd always hav to care