My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months and I always knew he was working with his ex. He never misses an opportunity to hang out with her and the rest of his work friends and also talks to her everyday. He also told me the other day that he was a bit upset when he found out that his ex girlfriend was dating someone else now but he hasn't told her about us.
should this behavior concern me?
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It sounds like he still had feelings for her and didn't move on.
There's a black and white decision to me made though first:
1) Keep him.
2) Drop him.
If you want #1, he might be able to lose those remaining feelings for his ex and start to have them only for you. It's probably good that she got a boyfriend.
But it does suck to be a girlfriend who is not the exclusive source of romantic feelings in a guy.
In any case, I think that's your choice. If you go with dropping him, that's that. If you go with keeping him, it doesn't help to confront and argue if you want to pull him closer and closer to you and further and further away from her.1
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