Do commitment phobes ever come back?
What Guys Said 2
I used to be one of those kind of and I don't know. I had that phobia because I imagined myself as a bachelor and wanted to be with as many women as possible, not just sexually but I absorbed new interests, adventures, stories to tell, from each woman I met. Traveling to new places in the world seemed dull in comparison to each woman I dated. The true adventure came from being with a new woman for me.
The thing that took me out of the phobia was meeting a girl who cured me of it. I couldn't resist her company, missed it all the time. Compared to the slew of women I had been with previously, they all seemed rather meaningless in comparison.
I can't imagine ever coming back to a woman I left behind. If I left her, it was in search of something new. I hope that's not too harsh, but I don't think a commitment phobe who has left is likely to come back. The cure for commitment phobia is really finding something so special that it makes everything else look poor in comparison, making it seem like finding something better in the future is impossible. And such a thing is not likely going to be abandoned at any point.0
What Girls Said 1
I doubt that.0
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