It has happened to me quite a few times in Dating... I always give them a Second Chance o see if there might be a Romance. However, I have been Fooled a Few times as well. Just When I thought they even would always Be just like a Bro... What do you Know... Good luck and Great question. xx
It really depends, if it is just a slow start I wouldn't care , it's hard for some people to build up to conversing. How much is there to talk about anyways? You have to focus on the surface things and that's about it. That shit is boring, but it can lead to better conversations later. I might stay if I didn't feel like we were forcing it
Depends, most likely not but if they're just shy on the first date and then open up on the 2nd date then probably. If they're always like that then it's a deal breaker.
I hate being on dates where it's quiet unless I'm talking. I feel like I'm trying too hard and at times girls like that act like it's all my fault there's awkward silences. Ironically these are the same ones who give one word replies and do nothing to further the conversation.
On one date you CAN'T know a shit from that person. Come on!! It takes time to know that person and have feelings for.
One thing I HATE the most is facing the first date putting a lot of pressure on you to like or not because of common things.
And I want to make it clear, that's what I think, one thing is common things and another completely thing is her personality and her values. I'm not gonna reject a woman because she prefers beach than mountain and I prefer the second one. Or she likes horror movies and I like superheroes movies. Or she loves dancing and I'm not good at it... maybe I could make a try.
What it matters is her real personality and values. I'm not gonna fall in love because she likes pizza and me too.
Physical attraction is another important thing. If I don't find her physically attractive, there's not even a date to me.
being in close relationships with women who are nothing like me are most preferred, you shouldn't be alike.. I'm brown (though mestizo) and I appreciate pale blonde girls the most.. what do we have in common? Almost nothing, but we're so different and that's what makes the relationship so great
First few dates with little convos a turn off? Really? Shy people juz need the time and patience to open up to u before they start being all over ur face. Its nothin' that they can change cuz its their nature so people shouldn't hold it against them and let time gives u the answer that u long desired for. Its not kool ditching the shy people. They are humans too 🤘🏼
No, probably not. I can usually tell whether I click with a person right away, there's not even much convo needed for this for me. It's just mutual attraction towards attitude and the physicals. You know the way you look at the other person and that fire in their eyes and you get that feeling like you're really nauseous (yes, this is me describing "butterflies" lmao)? If, in addition to that, I find that we share the same viewpoints on big topics like religion/politics/lifestyle/filler, and intellectually stimulating conversation is possibly with that person we have a winner 👍
I've tried a few times and don't want to do that again. At least a few common interests. I know sometimes there is an awkward stage where we still need to get to know each other, so I give it like 5 dates. If there is just absolutely nothing, then I let him know I'm not interested and move on.
Nope. We'd just both be unhappy and being setting ourselves up for hurt farther down the road. A guy definitely doesn't have to be my exact carbon copy for me to like him. That would be weird if that was the case. However, I do have to actually enjoy spending time with him.