I'm planning to move on after she rejected me through the text message she sent me. I felt embarrassed and avoided her. What do you think?

We've know each other for 3 months.
We would always say Hi to each and smile at each other.
She has offered to buy me candy and coffee.
The girl would contact me 3-4 times a week.

Last week, Thursday, I sat next to a girl and we had a 30 minute conversation about life in general.
She even asked me If I live in the suburbs or city.

The next day, Friday, the girl
sent me a instant message and said
Hi, Name with a smiley face emoji, I would like to speak.
Please me call me at personal phone number

5 days later, Tuesday evening at 8pm,
Me: I texted her Hello her name, It's me, How is everything going?

3 hours later at 11:30pm in the evening,
Her: she responded with Hi, Name Everything is fine, Thanks.
Is there something you need or want?

I felt her response was a nice way of saying "What do you want?

After the text from her, we haven't talked for 2 weeks.
I decided to moved because I felt embarrassed, awkward and rejected.
I felt so bad after that text message.
I have avoided her and didn't bother to even to look at her
I also avoided meeting her coworker who sits right next to her who contacting to me come upstairs to assist her.


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What Girls Said 1

  • You should move on

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What Guys Said 1

  • The next day, Friday, the girl
    sent me a instant message and said
    Hi, Name with a smiley face emoji, I would like to speak.
    Please me call me at personal phone number

    5 days later, Tuesday evening at 8pm,
    Me: I texted her Hello her name, It's me, How is everything going?

    Am I missing something? Did you call her, or no?

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    • 3mo

      He should of called her, he didn't and now she is cold to him and he blames her pretty typical

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    • 3mo

      I felt she didn't want a text from me for 4 reasons:
      1-Respond with "Is there something you need"
      2-Respond 3 hours 30 mins later at 11:30pm heading to 12am. I may be asleep at that time.
      3- Not texting back.
      4-Avoiding me the next day.

    • 3mo

      Apologize for what? I didn't do anything wrong in this situation?

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