here's the thing... this guy I've been dating suddenly stopped texting me. He's been hinting on having sex after dinner for about two or three dates. I've declined. One day, he texted me that we should get dinner, then hang out somewhere we could rent (i. e., motel). I told him, I'm good for dinner but not to hang out. I also asked him bluntly if all this was just for hook up. His response was that he really does like me, and that he would've told me first off if that was his intention. And then, no more texts. So, what is up with that?
Most Helpful Guy
Cause he want to know if you are willing to give the same feelings back or not. The sooner you give him the green the sooner it will work out or he will start chasing after the next best girl he comes across. (of course the latter only happens when he knows your not interested.)1
Most Helpful Girl
It seems like he was just looking for sex. If he really liked you he would have texted you to actually hang out and not in a motel room for obvious sex. Have you texted him since he hasn't responded last? If you have and he still did not respond then clearly he was just looking for sex and because you flat out asked him about it he realised he was caught and maybe said he liked you to not make you feel bad.1