I have a lot of dirty dreams about girl or intamite dreams about girls over and over again and its incredibly frustrating. I try to have dreams about guys instead but for some reason it doesn't work. I never can dream about a guy some reason. In real life, I'm not very close with guys, I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed either (same with girls) and boys don't even realize I'm there most of the time like I'm drop dead ugly or invisible or something. My eldest sister told me I come off as a lesbian in a list of ways and the family recognizes it too. I'm sexually attracted to females yes but I wouldn't date one. I would date a guy. I don't want to be bi or lesbain, I want to be straight and I want to be with a guy. But its like there's a force in the sky pulling me away from that making sure that I'm gay. There's nothing wrong with being gay, its just I want to be with a guy. Boys ignore the crap out of me and I can't even get a boyfriend in my dreams. what does this mean? I'm I just born to be a lesbain or something? This is getting on my nerves.
No rude ageist comments please. If you have a problem with anything I said, don't be dumb and start a problem just don't answer. (There are a crap ton of bullies on GAG)
Most Helpful Guy
Just throwing it out there, but maybe you're having intimate dreams about girls because you are subconsciously wishing you were like these girls in your dreams. Like you wish that you could be as desirable as these girls from your dreams. Or maybe you are gay/bi. Dreams are pretty complicated so just believe in what is in your heart. And don't worry too much either since you are still young, there will be plenty of chances to date a guy or maybe even a girl if you're into it.1
Most Helpful Girl
it could be nothing but honey, we don't choose our orientation. It is possible that these dreams are telling you something about yourself which you aren't ready to fully accept.0