ok i think both are important but i feel looks because i am friends with many girls with great personalities, the reason i don't date them is because they don't appeal to ME looks wise. this doesn't mean they have to be crazy attractive, its simply me finding them appealing physically. thanks for everyone who votes:)
I've found that the more I know someone and the more I like them as a person the more physically attractive they become to me. Now, of course, they'd have to not be a Loch Ness monster... but being alright can be amazing - boosted by personality.
I used to think you shou;d try and balance both or something but now... Sometimes I want a guy to drop dead cause he's so dumb/annoying/etc... I would be with a guy that is not good looking (in a general way) cause I think when you like someone it's impossible to not find them attractive in some level
personality because I noticed that whenever I have crushes just based on looks, I lose interest within a week or two since their face starts to get boring and esp after I start to notice their behaviors
For me nice personalities are a dime a dozen. Good looks are also a dime a dozen. It's when the two pair up that I find a keeper.
But between those two, a girl won't even get through to trigger any sexual attraction to her in me (and therefore no romantic feelings) if I don't find her looks appealing. That said, I've come to find girls to look more appealing even if I didn't so much on first impression as I got to see them more often.
Yet I would never date a girl I didn't find nice-looking. The idea of having a girlfriend you don't find physically attractive in the looks department sounds absolutely miserable to me. I don't care how sweet and charming she is. If I don't find her physically attractive, what's the point of making her a sexual mate instead of just a friend?
Both. I dont see why they have to be mutually exclusive. I've sen beautiful people with beautiful personalities and ugly people with ugly personalities and ofc vice versa. It can go both ways. But I agree that I have to find a girl physically attractive if I want to date her but she also has to have personality for me to stay with her.