Basically my bfs birthday is in September on the Wednesday, our three year anniversary is the day after this year so I thought we could go away. However there is a village fete that he attends every year to celebrate his birthday that is being held on the Saturday this year, all his friends go. Neither of us could get the week off so I proposed we go on our trip for our anniversary over the weekend and miss the fete and have his birthday mixed into our plans? He refused and said no he was going to the fete and that our anniversary plans can be moved to another week? I'm annoyed because it's our three years and wanted it to be special nearer the day. Am I over reacting or is he in the wrong?
Am I right to be annoyed about this?
What Guys Said 2
Yeeeahh.. Kinda 50-50. I understand that anniversaries and stuff are important to girls and im one of those gauys that im sure would forget those things... And id hope girla dont take this type of behaviour as too offensive.. I mean.. Yeah. But him not wanting to go with you is kinda inconaiderate on his part as well. Altough if he attends this every year then you should try to understand it too.. Well this is one of those circumstances where there's no bad guy. You two ahould just ait down and disxuss it while trying to see it from a neutral pov0
What Girls Said 1
You both are. I mean you can be upset as you want to celebrate but it's still his birthday so he should be allowed with his friends0
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