Hi guys! I have never had a boyfriend, I've never been kissed, and I'm a virgin. I was just hoping to get some male perspective as to why this might be. I'm healthy, do really well in school, I'm a good cook, I love music and animals, and I'm nice. It's not that I NEED to have a partner, it's just that I'm tired of being alone and I think it would be nice to have someone who cares about me, and who I can cook breakfast for and travel the world with. Thanks :)
It is probably because you just have not met someone your comparable with yet. Don't take it to heart that usually means that you will do better and have a better relationship when you do find a guy for you. You just have to keep looking. Both guys and girls have to be actively looking for someone that they are comparable with. Look at me I'm 23 I've dated around but I have not found anyone that I have been compatablemwith enough to kiss. The only time I have actually had the urge to kiss someone was with my friend that I'm trying to get out of the friend zone with and date. I've already made it out of her "just one of the girls" zone so I think that I'm making progress with her. In a few months I'll probably ask her out on a date. But still the comparability and the chemistry needs to be between two poeple for it.
There's a lot of factors involved... size of town/city you live in, size of your social circle, what you like to do in your free time (going out vs. staying in), how outgoing you are personality-wise, and lots more. And then honestly I think a big part of it is just luck/fate... you can put yourself out there, be confident, and give yourself opportunities to date, but you still have to meet the right guy you click with and don't feel like you're just settling. Just stay positive, be outgoing without being overly obnoxious/clingy... it'll work out sooner than later I would guess.
You are not serious about it, and you don't involve as much, just like me. I'm doing sports, I look good, I'm tall, going to gym, looking good, I'm open minded, I like to cook and I'm friendly. I just don't want a relationship (I'm quite scared) and I don't seek one.
Ok so I just Checked out your posts with the make-up and no make-up and I have to say your fucking gorgeous and i'm not surprised about the situation you are in because cause I am in the same predicament. Never been kissed, never had a girlfriend and its not because Girls don't like me. I get asked out on dates more often than you would think but i turn them down because I'm not really attracted to them. The ones I am attracted to usually don't feel the same way. Does this sound familiar to you? I think the problem is that you haven't met that special someone yet. You know that person that you're destined to meet! You should leave a reply to my RATE ME question i posted a few hours ago. You look like the kind of girl that would reject me in real life so I want to see what you think of my looks, Just be honest lol. And don't worry its only a matter of time till you find someone that will love you, looking the way you do, You just have to give it some time
Practice, practice, practice. Passionate kissing is great and often overlooked in a rush to get to a quick orgasm, Deep, reciprocal french kissing especially when done w/ a new lover is a hot, exploratory of each others anatomy, psychology. It usually triggers a woman sexual response by giving her neck breast flush aroused nipples and aureole,, pelvic rocking and wetness - all of which reciprocally turn on the man ( or SO)
In my opinion, I believe the reason you’re still single and a virgin is because you have other priorities in your life that are more important to you. As you state, you don’t need a partner, but you’re tired of being alone and you want someone you can make breakfast for and travel the world with. You’re basically looking for companionship through life and despite everything else you have, it’s the one you’re lacking, but it isn’t one you’re just whining over either. My advice, relax. When you’re ready to have a relationship and find someone, I’m sure you will. I’ve looked at your picture. You’re attractive and alluring. You have a lovely smile. I see nothing physically wrong with you. You may also be trying too hard and the vibe you’re giving off due to the anxiety you may be feeling is being picked up as you project your desires out there and it is keeping you from making a real connection. Take a breath. Again…relax. Allow yourself time to mature into the desire of what you want
You look very pretty in the picture you posted i repsect that you're a virgin a lot of girls too feel they have to lose it at such a young age i would rate you 7/10 really pretty if i saw you in person i would approach you start up a conversation with you.