My guy friend and I were playing around this weekend and one thing led to another. It didn't go too far, but far enough. Now he is not reading or responding to my messages, despite telling me to talk to him this week. I am starting to think that he regrets what happened. We admitted that we both wanted this, but now I think he changed his mind. I'll be seeing him this weekend at work and I am not sure what to think or how to act.
Most Helpful Guy
He is just a bit freaked out. He needs time to process this. It is probably a matter of him needing some action at the time and you were there and now he feels like he used you and possibly ruined the friendship. Or he thinks a relationship has started but all he truly wants right now is just a friendship. Just tell him not to freak out, it was fun, you enjoyed it and now it is time to be friends again.1
Most Helpful Girl
Apparently you have Found out that 'My Guy Friend' Is... A Grudge Bearer.
I hate to be the Bearer of Bad News here, dear, but he May still have this Sour Ball and All.
With someone like this, just go About your Business, and don't Suck up to him too much, but instead Act... Like nothing is Wrong. He has a Big World in Which to get over It In, and if he Really Likes you, then he will Forgive and then Forget.
Good luck. xx0