I have a male friend who is super outgoing and nice, while Im quite a shy person. He tries to help me whenever he can, listens to any problems I have, gives me advice with other guys (useful advice too, not just dump him, he's helped keep relationships), buys me things when I need them, just really nice. He is very sweet to other people, and tries to help everyone but especially me.
There are times when I snap at him (for really little reasons), and no matter what, he puts up with it and forgives me (unlike other people who get mad back, and never speaks to me again). He makes an effort to reach out to me, and always asks to hangout. I have also told him so much personal information, that I think he understands me better than 99% of my friends. He can analyze me pretty easily, he always knows when I'm upset and always knows how to cheer me up (almost like a 6th sense). We are both going to college (20 mins apart), and he keeps asking to keep in touch and so on.
I like him, but at the same time don't. I don't want to ruin a friendship, but I don't know. Do you think he likes me, even tho he treats me as a friend? Should I keep in touch over college?
Most Helpful Guy
When you say "I like him, but at the same time don't" Is that purely because you're already friends? If you didn't think it would ruin a friendship would you say you were definitely interested in dating him? If so then I think you should pursue a relationship with him but make it VERY clear that you would NEVER want to hurt him or ruin your friendship if it didn't work out.
Regardless of what you actually do you should keep in touch with him. He sounds like an amazing person and you shouldn't let go of him as a friend1
Most Helpful Girl
All I can say is, keep him in your life.0