I'm 24 years old and still a virgin I was planning on saving myself for marriage. Luckily my past bfs have felt the same. My current boyfriend has already lost his v card to his last girlfriend. And he assumes i have too cuz I never denied it. I'm debating if I should have sex with him or try and wait for marriage?
You are '24 years old and still a virgin,' and this is a Big Honor here, dear. You have a very Mature Outlook to 'Wait for marriage,' and this is Something I Feel that is a good Deal. However, if you Should ever Change your Mind and want to 'Have Sex' with someone, Make sure that 'Someone' sis Special, that you both are in a Real relationship and with or without Wedding Bells, it would be Something you didn't Regret because 'Someone' had Talked you into 'Assuming' it was Best for you. Talk it over with him. Open Lines of Convo is One of the Most important factors in any New or Old relationship. Just remember, the Ball is in your Court and you are the Star Athlete here, dear. Good luck and Good Going. xx
You should stop being stupid and instead of letting him assume start to communicate. And I am not talking about brabbling, but about quality communication where you say what is up, that you are a virgin and all.
What makes him different then your past boyfriends? This is totally your decision and how you feel about it and him. How important is saving yourself until marriage to you? Why did you want to do that? Religious beliefs or does it just seem like "the right thing to do"? Don't let him pressure you regardless. Do what's important to you. I personally belief sex before marriage IS important but that's just me. Others want to wait until marriage. Only you can answer and decide for yourself.
Save it man, just save it. Honestly sex after marriage is much more meaningful. You won't have to worry about regretting. And just imagine you meet the perfect guy thend you'll sit there wishing you'd have waited to share the special moment with him instead. Today everyone is having sex left and right like crazy maniac. Be different and don't be ashamed to be a virgin, it's rare. I'm saving my virginity for after marriage and I know I won't be regretting shit.
If he truly loves you, then he will respect your decision to wait for marriage. Do not go against what you have committed to just because of one guy. I mean the fact that you're a virgin is going to make a guy want to sleep with you anyways so why waste something that special on someone that could very possibly break up with u after taking that from you. Just doesn't seem worth it, sorry. I know if I could take it back I would. I definitely would truly think about that.