Guy not planning dates ahead if time, red flag?

Been talking to a guy for 3 weeks. We have only met 3 times. All these times he has never made concrete plans. Always last minute and doesn't even wanna spend a lot of time, makes excuses to always leave. Are these red flags? Is it wrong that I'm upset?


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What Guys Said 2

  • Yes, red flags. He seems only minimally interested.

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  • it does sound like he might have an issue with making plans with you. its tough to say what the problem might be , maybe he's not as interested as you though , maybe he's busy with something? but it does seem like a red flag

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What Girls Said 1

  • I would say these are huge red flags. It's one thing if he's a little spontaneous on occasion but if he is constantly finding excuses to leave the date early then I would move on. You can find better!

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