I met a guy through internet and he and u agreed we should meet. He finally asked me out but went to a businesstrip first and now when he should be back I texted him and he said he is sick...Yeah, he might be. He is kinda shy but this feels like a way to flake. He flaked twice before and I feel kinda annoyed. What the fuck is he doing? Like why say yes or ask me out if he doesn't really wanna meet? And if he really is sick he could have suggested us to meet later... But no. I feel stupid. I put only nice messages to him to get well soon and so on... But he replied with just a thanks.
Sorry, had to vent somewhere...
And if you have any tips (nice ones) please, share them here...
Ps. I am not usually annoyed like this but he really has been behaving like this for too long.
-And he can't be a catfish... so that is not the reason to the behaviour
- I agree, he is annoying.20%(1)14%(1)Vote0%(0)
- Haha, he is just not into you!60%(3)57%(4)Vote50%(1)
- Well, you know he is shy...0%(0)14%(1)Vote50%(1)
Most Helpful Guy
I don't know, but here's a very evil idea to try as a last resort if he keeps blowing you off: try sending him a very sexy and flattering picture of yourself (not too revealing, maybe more a tease).
Then say, "Whoops sorry! I meant to send that to someone else. How embarrassing! Hope you are getting better!"1
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly I'm guilty of this behavior...
I meet guys online and when I talk to them, sometimes there's a strong connection/I'm so attracted to them or other times I like them enough to give my cell but something trigged me in the middle and I end up just ignore them not see them.
I know it's totally not cool at all..
it could have been like there's no strong connection, he said something that just turned me off, he came off too strong, whatever reason being, at the end, I disappeared because I'm just not that into them.
he turned you down several times already and he's not eager to see you he's not planning anything to see you nor doesn't make sure that you know he's interested in you. That means time to move on. I know it sucks but you deserve better right1
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