Most Helpful Guy
Cause even a guy needs time to become a parent.4
Most Helpful Girl
Really? You don't get it?
- They're pregnant. A lot of guys don't really feel like dealing with a woman's pregnancy, especially when they just got to know her/barely even know her. A lot of responsibility. Puts a lot of pressure on them.
- They're about to have kids. A lot of younger guys aren't ready to deal with kids, especially when the kid isn't even their own. Again, a lot of responsibility.
Dating is supposed to be fun, relaxing, not about commitment straight away. If/when you bring pregnancy and babies into the picture, it immediately puts a lot of pressure on the guy. Especially if he's not ready for that yet. And a lot of guys are not into the idea of raising another guy's kid, or being there for the kid for a while but then having to leave if/when the relationship doesn't work out. That's clearly not fair to the kid.
So yeah. Lots of unwanted responsibilities and pressure.9
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