Im 30 years old, have no options for sex or dates, no phone numbers, moved away from Ohio in hopes of women not saying i have a boyfriend or rejecting me, most my friends are married or dating someone, I've been left behind, and get more messages on dating sites deleted or blocked than i do from replies, am bald, work a job i hate, and constantly getting rejected after 5 mins talking to a girl which results in either a fake number, the girl flaking on me, or a number but no response, and ij counseling due to depression from lack of sex and dates. How am i suspose to be normal and ever date let alone have sex if im constantly rejected and hardly ever given a chance? Where are all the available single women and where are the nice taken ones who will be a wing girl with me and approach women with me? Why are women so picky and expect so much of me? What can i do to improve my odds? At this pt, I've lost hope in women and believe they dont understand just approaching is hard by itself. Anyway, any feedback or advice is appreciated.
Don't focus too much on getting a girlfriend, focus on your happiness and your self esteem, make friends, make your friends happy, and go from there. Read some self help book on how to make friends, how to build your confidence
I have previous styling/fashion experience, so it would help if you could show a pic so I could see exactly what the deal is appearance wise. However here are a few basic tips: 1- Confidence is key even if your sad depressed you need to pretend to have confidence, I can't tell you the number of bad dates i've been on where the guys negative attitude and lack of confidence pretty much ruined the date. 2-What's your job exactly? might not be that bad... even if you dont like it - is there something about it you like or that isn't that horrible. ie. I dont love my job but I get to do this and that which is nice. 3- Have you ever done anything interesting? traveled? a cool hobby?
First be comfortable with yourself and happy, then start introducing your self to cute girls where ever you are, the store, library. Here's a good pick up online I got from hitch limbo
So when your at a store and a cute woman walks away from her basket, ask her where to find a product and if she gets an attitude she's probably not the best girl, but more than likely she'll say I don't work here, or does it look like I work here, and you'll say or sorry you just dress nice and start a conversation, but leave with her #...