There is this girl I have a major crush on. I'm getting several mixed signals, so I'm thinking about straight up asking her to be my girlfriend. However, I REALLY don't want to get rejected because I've been trying to a build a relationship for about two years now. She also told me that she is taking a break from dating a few months back when I asked her to hang out, but she still hung out with me anyways. Should I just go for it? What if she says no?
Continue to 'Hang Out, @ThatOneGuy007, for if you have Gone this Far thus Far, you don't Want to Ruin any Chance for a Potential Romance so Silence is Golden right now. She has already Made it Clear here, dear about her Dating Deal, so just Go with the Slow Flow of Continuing to to Be with one Another until it Might come the Day when a Signal has Crossed your Possible Path, and there is Maybe... More in Store. Don't push her. You have not Come this Far with so Far doing Anything to Push her Away. Good luck. xx
You need to learn to normalise rejection. Everyone gets it, in many areas of life not just asking someone out. The moment you start worrying about being rejected, you come across as unconfident and nervous which makes other people around you nervous and uncomfortable. Go talk to her like you don't care about the outcome. Or tell yourself your goal is to ask her out or for her number. If you do that mission accomplished. She might not like you so her rejecting would be out of your control anyway and therefore you shouldn't see it as a failure on your part.
Ask her out. It is better than regretting that you did nothing for a girl who you wanted to be your girlfriend and then feeling bad everytime when you see her with other guys, who had guts to ask her out. You have nothing to lose. Do it.
I think that you should take it relatively slowly. Maybe ask her to hang out a couple more times and then do something you know she would like to ask her out. You aren't going to know unless you ask. As a teenage girl, I know that we can be confusing sometimes but hey, you guys are too. She could feel like she is getting mixed signals from you and is testing the waters. Either way, it's best to clear it out and go for it. If she happens to reject you, then it is her loss. It has nothing to do with you and it isn't the end of the world even though it may feel like it. Good luck and I hope it works out in your favour.
Go and ask directly! If she says yes.. great! If she says no then remember that the most beautiful love story begins with rejection! Make her love you.. by showing care and affection and love!! I've seen many examples!! And they are actually the most beautiful love stories!
Truly, I think you should just go for it! She won't judge ya too much. In fact, she might feel pleased that you desire to have her as your girlfriend. And in all honestly, rejection is harsh, but what if you don't ask her and you miss out on a lot of good stuff. To me I wouldn't chance it, and just go ask her because why not, right? (:
Don't ask her to be your girlfriend, instead just ask her on a DATE.
Maybe ask her later. If she rejects you, u will both feel bad. So, maybe wait.
I dunno... what's the worst that could happen? She's screams rape and lands your ass in jail 😂. If your at college, women have this thing called rape culture that they promote on campus. Meaning if you approach a girl who thinks your unattractive it's classed as rape according to feminists.