There is this girl I have a major crush on. I'm getting several mixed signals, so I'm thinking about straight up asking her to be my girlfriend. However, I REALLY don't want to get rejected because I've been trying to a build a relationship for about two years now. She also told me that she is taking a break from dating a few months back when I asked her to hang out, but she still hung out with me anyways. Should I just go for it? What if she says no?
Most Helpful Girl
Continue to 'Hang Out, @ThatOneGuy007, for if you have Gone this Far thus Far, you don't Want to Ruin any Chance for a Potential Romance so Silence is Golden right now.
She has already Made it Clear here, dear about her Dating Deal, so just Go with the Slow Flow of Continuing to to Be with one Another until it Might come the Day when a Signal has Crossed your Possible Path, and there is Maybe... More in Store.
Don't push her. You have not Come this Far with so Far doing Anything to Push her Away.
Good luck. xx2
Most Helpful Guy
You need to learn to normalise rejection. Everyone gets it, in many areas of life not just asking someone out. The moment you start worrying about being rejected, you come across as unconfident and nervous which makes other people around you nervous and uncomfortable. Go talk to her like you don't care about the outcome. Or tell yourself your goal is to ask her out or for her number. If you do that mission accomplished. She might not like you so her rejecting would be out of your control anyway and therefore you shouldn't see it as a failure on your part.2