I feel vain for asking but it's just so strange and it kinda hurts a little. When I go out with my friends and I put effort into how I look, guys stare at them and approach them even if they dress in boyish looking clothes and I don't want a lot of that kind of attention but it comes off that no one finds me attractive. Even when i go out by myself nothing happens. I know you may be thinking that I don't notice if it happens to me but since I'm so confused as to why not, I try to be more aware about it.
I'm 18 but I look really innocent, petite, and youthful so I guess it could be that they think I'm jailbait so I understand in that sense but even at school no one ever seemed to like me romantically. I am quite shy so that could be it but I've seen plenty of shy girls that don't have this issue. My friends all assume that I'm a lesbian and that doesn't really bother me but I'm sure they think it because I've never had a boyfriend or a romantic interest at all, but even then girls aren't attracted to me either.
It's really hurting my self esteem and I know it shouldn't I do love myself but it's just really bugging me and makes me sad at times. I do smile and talk to people but it seems to not do anything. Any helpful input would be appreciated.
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There is nothing wrong with you. The guy that meets you will like you for you.1