This guy and I knew eachother first from meeting in real life and then had a relationship online for about a year. We finally started dating in real life recently and have taken it pretty slow, but it's been a bit over a month and he now invited me to leave clothes in his dresser drawer and leave my toiletries in his bathroom (shampoo, toothbrush, cleanser, etc). I have met all of his friends and he includes me in his weekly hangout with them. However, he has not asked me to be his girlfriend officially, though his friends make comments like "you've gotta keep her around" and he makes plans with me for months in advance from now. Why do you think he hasn't asked me to be his gf?
Guys, I think he's showing signs that he's serious about dating me. Am I right? Why aren't I his girlfriend then?
What Guys Said 3
Are you asking him to actually use the words "be my girlfriend"? Because that probably won't happen. But the fact that he's planning things months in advance and making space for you to leave things at his place - look you ARE his girlfriend! Just because he doesn't set aside a five second moment to ask you doesn't mean you aren't. What do you think you are to him?1
Since being official boyfriend/girlfriend and being exclusive are usually more important to the girl than the guy, a lot of guys just wait for the girl to bring it up1
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