This is me:
i feel like i am behind relationships or dating... i have no idea why but i never really feel like opening up... or i can't open up... or am i just not pretty? I am Always the girl guys ignore
Most Helpful Guy
you are behind some, not behind others. you are attractive and have some nice features.
But to me, it is obvious that your heart is wounded... that's what I see in your eyes and I wouldn't pursue you because of that. I would talk to you. It is important you feel good about yourself as you go out dating. You need lots of love, acceptance, positiveness, successes. Go to a church and/or find God/Jesus and fill up with love every day like others of us have to do.
the issue is if you go out to find a guy in your current state, you will likely attract a wounded and needy guy, because I suspect that is where you are at right now... like attracts. That will be really bad, you need a generous, kind good guy that builds you up, not one that needs you to give him love.
Most Helpful Girl
You're gorgeous so it definitely isn't your looks. Maybe give online dating a try? I've been on several great dates with guys from Tinder and Bumble. It probably is just the area you live in!0