i mean let's say u have a crush and this guy who is shorter than him, darker skin tone, fat and even doesn't have a car approaches you, would you give him a chance or no? what if the guy is shy but just mustered up enough courage to tell u how he feels, also the guy who approaches you is socially awkward
I won't date someone I find unattractive. But I'll date someone short or dark or fat- for one, dark skin isn't a turn off at least not to me. Shortness can be overlooked even if it isn't preferred, the same with being overweight, but honestly it is a deal breaker if he's very overweight. I can look past chubbiness. I have dated a short chubby guy. Even tho it isn't ideal.
So don't label yourself as unattractive. Everyone's attractive to some people.
If a girl finds a guy unattractive by her own personal tastes them it's unlikely she'll date you. But you will find girls that find you attractive.
With my many years of experience, I can say that for young women, say under 23, a significant percent of them are primarily interested in looks at first blush.
For women over that age, and many in that age group, the primary interest is for men with money and power, and looks don't matter nearly as much.
There are two saving graces. If a woman of any age allows herself the opportunity to get to know a guy, she may indeed fall for him regardless of looks or money. Also, ugly and fat women have much lower standards.