I went on a date recently- the guy seemed nice but then we sat down to dinner. he was smiling really big.. i wasn't but I was just being friendly. Then, he kind of changed- he was acting weird and semi rudish. He wasn't mean but I could tell he was acting different. When it came to dinner- I ordered a small appetizer, and a small dish. He asked if we should share some appetizers. It seems he didn't want us to order much. He had money though and ran his own business. He never asked if I wanted another drink or even dessert. I got the feeling I shouldn't order much. He was looking at me funny while I was eatiny my food- as if he was surprised I was eating it all. We had 'ok' conversation it was obvious he was attracted to me- im a really attractive female.
At one point he kept talking over me and kept talking and talking not letting me get a word in. After the bill came, he asked me "do you want another drink." The restaurant was past closed and there was no way i could get another drink. He said "we can go somewhere else." When we left- he didn't want to go anywhere else and just took me straight home. He also began smoking inside his car, and even knowing it made me sick- I felt he did it to be rude. Again he was turned on. When we got to my house i did invite him inside- just to talk. I felt kind of nervous asking him assuming he wasn't going to come. he acted like he wasn't sure then said he had to work in the morning. A guy refusing to go inside a pretty woman's house, also trying to be super cheap and control what to order despite that he has money. Was he just trying to be controlling? Why the sudden attitude change? I find it odd that guys meet hot women and just blatantly treat them this way then sort of reject them- it makes no sense.
Why would men reject or be mean to women they're attracted to?
3mo also in the end a female waitress came to take our check- he was like gawking at her in some desperate sexual way. I'm way hotter than her. Are these guys just insecure or don't want to come off as perverts- I don't get their attitude. I even said to him "well text me maybe we can meet up again." He's on a date with a hot girl he rejects, and is gawking at the waitress--wtf is going on here?
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I have no clue but according to the things you described, you dodged a bullet.2
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